Is Social Media Waste of Time?
There are many people who believe social media is waste of time. For example, this post "Top 10 Reasons Why Social Networking is a Waste of Time?" gives ten reasons why social media is waste of time. Among the reasons given is that social media is too big to manage, privacy intruder, fake identity, bullying and scam and its bad effects on study, work and health.
Critics such as Sherry Turkle advocate the idea that society at large is growing “alone together” in the face of the rapidly-changing technology at our fingertips. Businesses are losing precious times because of workers spend considerable times socializing in activities not related to their work. Businesses mostly find the dividends of social media are hardly noticed. Focus is lost as workers may be busy with varying issues at the same time. Credibility of recommendations are declining as the attitude of "recommend me and I recommend you back" is growing. Large scale campaigns on illusionary and faked issues.
The commonsense says that we should go where the customer is. I say we should go where the customer spends his time. The customer isn't necessarily a business one; he/she could be a reader of this buzz. Let us accept facts whether on social media or not only 10% of readers or business customers are pioneers or early adopters. We need others to cross the chasm to follow and the late laggards are already too late. This human behavior may be noticeable on social media and this offers the opportunity where to direct efforts.
We need to ask ourselves why we get involved in social media. It could be finding romance, detecting trends, socializing, meeting people from different parts of the world, finding a job, recommendations on hotels and resort, selling and many other possibilities. On a personal level I find social media a prime source of identifying thinkers and to exchange my thoughts with them, brainstorming new ideas, receiving feedback and hoping for creative ideas to emerge. On a business level, I need social media to increase the awareness of potential candidates of my clients' business. I may measure the success and take corrective steps accordingly. I have made excellent connections that helped me grow. I didn't make a penny out of social media because this wasn't my goal to start with. I had my bad experiences such as getting invited to a global conference that never happened. However; in life we don't get anything for nothing and to reap delights one must be ready to accept few pains.
Building connections requires mutual trust. Building trust isn't easy. It takes more effort when the relationship isn't physical. This is one of the basic challenges of social media. Trust and expectations might work in opposite directions and this is one of the new challenges I face personally. A virtual friend asks me to comment on one of his posts. His expectations are that I shall endorse his post and share it. If I don't comment because I find the post irrelevant or misleading the author would think that I am ignoring him. If I write a moderate and not even very critical review, he would think that I am acting and his trust in me dwindles. I even wrote to few supposedly friends with some critical views and this resulting in never hearing from them again. I find social media role as a sieving media is important. It sieves away people who only expect praise. This is not the way to learn and grow.
We had different experiences on social media. Some authors migrated from other platforms. Few other authors abandoned social media as they found it "a complete wastage of time". I invite you to share your experience whether you find it rewarding to spend hours on social media.
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Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
منذ 7 سنوات #62
Fatima Williams LOL
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
منذ 7 سنوات #61
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
منذ 7 سنوات #60
I used to live a house made of Red tiles I must have been 8 or 9 years at the time and the guava tree grew over the house covering it like a blanket. It stood in the middle of the house like a might shade and it offered us nothing but love during those 5 plus years that we lived there. Yes Anees Zaidi we used to climb the trees too, my sisters and me to pluck the guava's that we so happily distributed to our neighbors and friends. However we were always chased by the landlord who eventually gave up even-though we kept breaking his tiles :)
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #59
Amazing because i kept thinking about the same idea dear Anees Zaidi sweeten by you biting them. Write about Biting Ideas my friend and pulping them in red
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #58
I fully concur with your comment dear Fatima Williams heart to the brim with smiles
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
منذ 7 سنوات #57
Javier beBee I burst out laughing at your comment I can imagine what you thought when you wrote that. This buzz is more to tell others why it's not a waste of time. You have created something extra-ordinary here its a little more than any normal social media platform, its unique. We are Proud :) So be Proud and stay awesome :) Cheers BeBee - Because Engaging Becomes Exciting & Enriching.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #56
Thank you Javier beBee)
Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
منذ 7 سنوات #55
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #54
I decided to sit aside to allow for the flow of comments and respond tomorrow. Hoever; dear Anees Zaidi will then enjoy alone the Guava fruit. Dear Fatima Williams- fantastic what you wrote "beBee, twitter and linkedin has helped me gained some everlasting fruitful and worthy friendships & connections. For that I am Thankful. Social media is my like the guava tree that I once had in my backyard. Not every fruit is sweet but they are always giving you something. Especially the ones bitten by the squirrels are even more sweeter like the comments of a buzz". You are very right.
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
منذ 7 سنوات #53
Harvey Lloyd
منذ 7 سنوات #52
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #51
I do appreciate your authenticity and search for own choices. I respect every word of your response Peter van Doorn
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #50
Renee Cormier- beautifully said "There is nothing wrong with letting your mind and body do something unchallenging for a while". I wrote a presentation that rates among my best three on "Clean your mind cache" and I call exactly for the same. However; please allow me to add that it is the overuse of time in surfing the social media. I see people very busy scrolling pages and pages on social media using their mobile and exchanging very little info. Social media is a tool and instead of blaming the song we should blame the singer or the composer.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #49
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 7 سنوات #48
I'm so glad we met, Ali Anani. By the way, I see myself rather as a person who is quick to notice things, than a vigilant one. :-)
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #47
I fully concur with your probing comment dear Sara Sara Jacobovici. Yes, the pleasure of meeting face to face following the building of online relationship is a the real test. You remind me of a long time real friend till we travelled together. So many things then put me off. Even knowing somebody in person for long times might not be enough to travel with.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #46
You have very agile mind dear Lada Prkic. Your writing " my quick due diligence of social media has shown me which social networks are the serious social media platforms, and these I use on a regular basis" is the reflection of this agility and tells why I am lucky to have met with you
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #45
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #44
Your 100% right Ali Anani when you describe that the process, once it's begun by the butterfly effect, is something outside our ability to influence the outcome while the process is taking place. I think for me, the potential of influencing the outcome is in our response to the result of the process. Our response can influence what happens next.
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #43
Thank you so much Peter van Doorn for your reply. First let me say that it wasn't my intent to give the impression that I thought only talented individuals were artists. I see a difference between creative people and artists. I believe we are all creative and it is crucial for everyone to find their means of self-expression. I am glad that technology enables individuals to find a voice, the internet, a place where you can be yourself. Please, by all means, dream on!
Lada 🏡 Prkic
منذ 7 سنوات #42
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #41
Enjoyed your comment @Peter Van Doorn. I invite Sara Jacobovici to read it by highlighting her name.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #40
Dear Steve Brady-- let me first wish you that you would recover soon and be in good health. When we go through bad experiences our words become more effective. Your comment made me feel how important social media can be be for some people. The passions in your comment are overwhelming and moved me. I am grateful for contributing this comment
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #39
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #38
Will read and I am so grateful to you dear CityVP Manjit for the deep info and link
CityVP Manjit
منذ 7 سنوات #37
#44 Clay Shirky wrote the book "Cognitive Surplus" and like all ideas, what took shape after that is discussed in this Edge commentary https://www.edge.org/conversation/clay_shirky-gin-television-and-cognitive-surplus - one of the interesting follow on notes being from Tom O'Reilly who mentions Americans approximately 2 billion hours of television a year and 98 million hours of advertising every weekend - but estimated that the collective cognitive surplus that went into what Wikipedia is today equates to 98 million of human thought in coding, edits and updates.
CityVP Manjit
منذ 7 سنوات #36
Clay Shirky wrote the book "Cognitive Surplus" and like all ideas, what took shape after that is discussed in this Edge commentary https://www.edge.org/conversation/clay_shirky-gin-television-and-cognitive-surplus - one of the interesting follow on notes being from Tom O'Reilly who mentions Americans approximately 2 billion hours of television a year and 98 million hours of advertising every weekend - but estimated that the collective cognitive surplus that went into what Wikipedia is today equates to 98 million of human thought in coding, edits and updates. https://www.edge.org/conversation/clay_shirky-gin-television-and-cognitive-surplus
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #35
Dea brother Anees Zaidi- you may have noticed many software companies sell software online only. The reason is psychological. When people buy a software, download it and start using it in few minutes they get the delight of fst services. The deferred pain is that customers they pay around 30% more. This is because they get immediate delight, but the illusion of no pain. They didn't have to put their hands deep in their pocket to pay for the software. Only a month later they have to settle the invoice. Yes, online is faster, but could cost more.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #34
In cases where we have a butterfly effect where the outcome is out of proportion to the causes then may b it is difficult to affect the outcome in assured ways. I wonder what you think Sara Sara Jacobovici, being a great thinker
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #33
Amazing is how you keep your thoughts balanced dear
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #32
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #31
GREAT IDEA dear Alan Alan Geller and I shall give it due attention
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #30
I tell you frankly dear CityVP Manjit only very special people may come with the term "cognitive surplus". That is a great terminology and has profound meanings. One thing I am sure of is that you Manjit have it. I am so impressed and feel ike exploring the depth of this cognitive surplus. I might dare even to write a buzz about
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #29
Provocative questions Peter van Doorn. Asking these questions is a sign of not wasting our lives. I agree that social media is a tool. I, however, respectfully disagree when you say that the tools of "Writing, sculpturing, composing, painting." are the same as the tool of social media. From my perspective, artists don't lose themselves, they experience the world (both our internal and external worlds), they enter an altered state of consciousness from which comes forth a creation to transcend our particular understanding of those worlds. Social media is a way of communicating and connecting, a way of transmitting and receiving information. Technology has increased the speed and quantity of information available to us and has eliminated physical boundaries. A very different type of tool. Thanks Peter for sparking an interesting discussion.
CityVP Manjit
منذ 7 سنوات #28
Dear Sara, I am also reminded of my time organizing trade shows and how people who visited our booth and were not interested in our product we identified as "tire-kickers", named after people who go to a car showroom only to kick the tires as if they are interested, when they are not. In that case it was to keep vigilant about people that were not "wasting our time". Yet the same salespeople who termed trade show visitors tire-kickers went out in their spare time to engage in window shopping, that moving from shop to shop because of a fascination and not simply as an act of consumerism. That is how I treat social media but it is not helpful on me focusing on people as tire-kickers - but it is helpful to notice the people who do notice - and in that there is our own unique value - just as the people walking down main street are not consumers, they are people and they have every right to do make life choices the way they see fit, so long as it is not breaking laws and disturbing the peace. If breath was meant to be meaningful why is the in and out of breathing by itself rather simple thing. Our choices are not time based but breath based and in that there can be time well wasted. That we change the breathing patterns of others is a responsibility we should be more mindful of especially if we are not breathing properly ourselves. That is the self-reflection for me.
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #27
I appreciate your comment CityVP Manjit. I also like the following focus: "The question you ask here is what wise people have asked decade upon decade and it does not change the dynamic of mass behaviours."
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #26
A well written and appreciated comment Salma Rodriguez. You are describing a too real potential. But it is only a potential. I refuse to believe that we can not have a say in the outcome.
Mohammed Abdul Jawad
منذ 7 سنوات #25
Sara Jacobovici
منذ 7 سنوات #24
Agreed Jim Murray, "...what I do know is that nothing will happen if you are not actively participating." Also like the marathon/sprinter analogy.
CityVP Manjit
منذ 7 سنوات #23
In terms of purpose Clay Shirky does not refer to social media, he created a much more meaningful term called "Cognitive Surplus" - that is about the media we consume in our free time and how in a collaborative networks we can utilize cognitive surplus - whether that is in creating LOL cats at the trivial level or come together to collaborate on Ushahidi projects https://www.ushahidi.com/ His TED Talk explains why the idea of "Cognitive Surplus" is so powerful https://www.ted.com/talks/clay_shirky_how_cognitive_surplus_will_change_the_world?language=en and for you Ali Ali Anani it becomes a way of describing something you naturally hold to be great contribution value, but which maybe has been lacking a name to reference it.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #22
Yes, dear Claudio Vetica gave about Africa in his first comment is a great one within this context.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #21
Veru nice examples and some smiley ones dear Ben Pinto
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #20
Max Carter- you started your comment with a very balanced view I find social media to be the single most damaging thing and yet the single greatest tool in humanity." Yes, we need to balance our opinions and not swing them to one extreme opposite. Like pharmaceuticals, they have benefits and harmful side effects. We need to balance the benefits against harmful side effects. For some patient one drug may be of great other; for another patient it could be fatal. We need a comprehensive view as you did in your comment.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #19
mohammed khalaf- I agree dear with you "We are all products of our personal choices". But when we get a virus, or silly pop-up on the screen or someone hijacking our e-mail I wonder my friend if this is a matter of personal choice. In fact, very little we may have on the content of beBee for example. Sometimes we get surprises.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #18
Your comment Paul \ knows what I am referring to. We need to verify our trust.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #17
Charles Charles David Upchurch- what a concise way to put it Social media are worthwhile when I invest in making them worthwhile". Lovely and deep comment
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #16
Yes, CityVP Manjit- social media has helped many AFricans master some agriculture technologies and this way it has served a grand human purpose. You bring a vital point: social media for great purposes and in this regard this medium along with others may go a long way in alleviating human miseries.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #15
Salma Rodriguez. Like in chemical reactions, human reactions are mostly irrelevant. Like molecules reacting, they must have the right orientation, reactivity and conditions to react so are human reactions. Apparently, this is the rule of life. It is not common to find lots of people with whom you have the right orientation and interests to react. This is not limited to social media, but this media helped us see realities s they are.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #14
Salma Rodriguez- this point is the main reason why I wrote this buzz "only doing that: having us grow alone together". Yes, and I can this this negative issue increasing with the advancement of mobile hones where distraction is growing seriously
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #13
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #12
Thank you for your very balanced response . This is evidenced in your writing "and not goading people with my negative or argumentative comment" .and also "Not to mention you can build the triad - the Know, Like and Trust factors". yes, we need to ild the three corners of the triad because if one is missing the triad collapses. I concur fully with your insightful comment.
CityVP Manjit
منذ 7 سنوات #11
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #10
Thank you dear Milos Djukic. I agree and having a butterfly effect is a big reward for persistence and hard work.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #9
Jim Murray- Thank you Jim for your good words about me. In no way I said I am not benefiting from social media. This is how I got to know you and many great minds who have helped me develop, learn, generate new ideas, have fruitful discussion and exchange posts. I tried be neutral for there are two parties as summarized from my literature search. I wished to know your opinion. My strategy is not geared towards generating money, but towards generating creative ideas. I am very much obliged to many people here on beBee who helped me go a long way along this direction. On a personal level I am thriving and I have no complaint. Some people do. I wanted to remain balanced and for this reason I decided not to respond instantly to comments so that I may have no influence on others.
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #8
AS long as we acquire knowledge and develop ideas from the inspirations from feedback I am equally happy like you Darryl John
Ali Anani
منذ 7 سنوات #7
Dear Vincent Andrew- your comment resonates with me. I always say comments are my favorite engagements because from them I learn and develop
mohammed khalaf
منذ 7 سنوات #6
CityVP Manjit
منذ 7 سنوات #5
Salma Rodriguez
منذ 7 سنوات #4
Very true, Milos. It is this connection with like-minded people, like yourself, that has me continue my social media activities. I rest my case on what I said earlier. True, each being lives in isolation of others, yet connecting with others has a sort of impact on consciousness. Our communication has a new dimension, yet I feel as if it is vastly unexplored, even though, as scientist, I have conducted my experiments and found Truth. It is only via these interactions that I bring new purpose to life on Earth. Thank you!
Salma Rodriguez
منذ 7 سنوات #3
Milos Djukic
منذ 7 سنوات #2
Dear Jim Murray, Social media are unpredictable miracle (chaotic system). They can bring us a lot, but require commitment and determination. Only then, the butterfly can fly and in coordination with like-minded people.
Jim Murray
منذ 7 سنوات #1